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>Hi..my 16 month old is the same way. We thought she would love the church >easter egg hunt but she cried through the whole thing. she hates the church >nursery and she hates being around people.
This is a repressed hatred of you she is acting out. >I just dont take her places >when I know she will cry anyway. Hopefully she will grow out >of it.
You can accelerate the process by whispering in her ear. "Best shut up, my darling. Or I’ll give you a real good reason to cry." If she continues, swat her in the butt with a spatula. End of crying. Ben – Gets Results; Screw "New Parenting" * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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> mr. malone-in holland, we train children <snip crap>
Excuse me mr Holland….. we don’t. So stop giving your country a bad name will you? Ga lekker met je poppen spelen! (go play with your dolls)
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>Excuse me mr Holland….. we don’t. So stop giving your country a bad name >will you?
look bitch, just because you are the only person in holland who is sexually fucked up doesn’t mean you can criticise me. i know more about everything than you do concerning my country. >Ga lekker met je poppen spelen! (go play with your dolls)
please put your finger back in some small titted dyke. cheers, jeroen 
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Hi..my 16 month old is the same way. We thought she would love the church easter egg hunt but she cried through the whole thing. she hates the church nursery and she hates being around people. we dont go out to eat unless we have a sitter and we dont take her many places..she screams in the car anyway because she hates to ride. I do take her outside and we play and go to the store, etc…so I am not depriving her. I just dont take her places when I know she will cry anyway. Hopefully she will grow out of it. Toni Edwards – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi, > I’ve just found your group and am searching out some advice. I have > two daughters a 3 month old and a 2 1/2 yr. old. Needless to say the 3 > month old is not the problem. > Justine has always been very physically inclined (climbing, jumping, > etc.) extremely friendly and loving, very extroverted, a real charmer > you know? Whereas I love the fact that she is so full of life it is so > trying sometimes that I am just beside myself. I should have known it > would be like this from early on. We’d go to La Lache meetings and the > other babies would be staying close to their mom’s and Justine would > crawling off to explore the other rooms. She didn’t talk much til she > was about 2 and now she never stops but I can’t get her to relate how > she feels about things to me. > We had a gymnastics show today. She loves class and the teachers and > they really love her. We’ve worked hard at following the routine of > class and learning to wait turns etc. So, I thought the show would be > great for her. She took one look around at the crowd and refused > to do anything just cried and cried. She calmed down when it was time > for the last thing (bars, which is her favorite). It didn’t help that > yesterday she fighting a bug and I know she’s only 2 1/2…..but I > felt so disappointed, kind of let down. > I love the beautiful, strong qualities in my child and I would never > want to dampen them but sometimes I just wish she would act like the > other kids around her. Does anyone else get this confused? Right now I > just want to retreat from playgroup and outings and stay home until I > can figure things out. Any reccomendations for good parenting books or > any ideas would be greatly apppreciated. It was good to vent. > thanks > Julia > Some kids just aren’t verbal for a while, they learn all the physical > and sensual things first. Her words "haven’t come in yet". Just love her > and ask her things and take what you get for a while, she’ll do fine. > Don’t push her into things that young, but give her the opportunity to > respond without any particular judgment. > Just make sure she’s not deaf and otherwise have a nice time together. > Steve
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>have her do chin-ups on your penis. >cheers, >jeroen
Jeroen, this kind of filth doesn’t assist in the proliferation of parental solutions. Anyway, Baby’s hands are too small and the shoulder joint too fragile. Benburn * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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>Jeroen, this kind of filth doesn’t assist in the proliferation >of parental solutions. Anyway, Baby’s hands are too small and >the shoulder joint too fragile. >Benburn
mr. malone-in holland, we train children from a very young age to utilize the penis in all sorts of physical training. it is important for the child to see from whence it came. the penis is the source of all life and by excercising on it, the children will understand what Freud meant in his writings on Totems and Taboo’s. may the peace of wilburn which passes all understanding keep your part and your mind hard. jeroen. * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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>Any reccomendations for good parenting books or >any ideas would be greatly apppreciated. It was good to vent. >thanks >Julia
Julia, listen to me. The reality is if you don’t get a grip on your little social outcast, down the line, someone else will. If she continues this anti-social behaviour, someday she is going to get her clock cleaned with a good right hook. I don’t mean to be forward but if, by age 3, you don’t shake some sense into this kid you are headed for a real life downhill slide when school starts. Assuming she will be able to attend school without throwing tantrums. Good luck. If you listen to the "love and timeout" group, you will find yourself with an antisocial brat and a homeschooling imbecile. Shove her back into the fray and when she starts all that bs, give her a stern, straightforward talking to. Andif that don’t work, smack her upside the head. Better from you than the first grade bully. Ben * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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have her do chin-ups on your penis. cheers, jeroen – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Justine has always been very physically inclined (climbing, jumping, >etc.) extremely friendly and loving, very extroverted, a real charmer >you know? Whereas I love the fact that she is so full of life it is so >trying sometimes that I am just beside myself. I should have known it >would be like this from early on. We’d go to La Lache meetings and the >other babies would be staying close to their mom’s and Justine would >crawling off to explore the other rooms. She didn’t talk much til she >was about 2 and now she never stops but I can’t get her to relate how >she feels about things to me. >We had a gymnastics show today. She loves class and the teachers and >they really love her. We’ve worked hard at following the routine of >class and learning to wait turns etc. So, I thought the show would be >great for her. She took one look around at the crowd and refused >to do anything just cried and cried. She calmed down when it was time >for the last thing (bars, which is her favorite). It didn’t help that >yesterday she fighting a bug and I know she’s only 2 1/2…..but I >felt so disappointed, kind of let down. >I love the beautiful, strong qualities in my child and I would never >want to dampen them but sometimes I just wish she would act like the >other kids around her. Does anyone else get this confused? Right now I >just want to retreat from playgroup and outings and stay home until I >can figure things out. Any reccomendations for good parenting books or >any ideas would be greatly apppreciated. It was good to vent. >thanks >Julia
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Julia, You have gotten some wonderful advice thus far. I can tell you that I have two strong willed, determined children. It’s not always easy to parent them. But I am very secure in the knowledge that they will never be anyone’s doormat. They are very much their own people. Sounds like your daughter is the same way. That is something to celebrate, not bemoan!! Just think what a strong woman she will be in 20 years! The world will be hers for the taking. As for the gymnastic show. She may have been nervous about all those faces watching her. That’s OK. We ran into something like that with my DD at 2 1/2. My best friend from college was getting married. She asked me to be her matron of honor and DD to be her flower girl. Anna was thrilled about it. She got a fancy, fancy dress and all those flowers to carry!! OOH! She was so thrilled!!! Until it was time to walk down the aisle. lol Then she saw all those people, got scared and would only walk down if she could hold my hand and not look at any of them. So that is what we did. Not the way we had hoped it would work out, but it all turned out fine. We got to the head of the aisle, and she ran across the front pew to Daddy. 2 1/2 is still very young. It’s easy to forget that when they are so outgoing normally. But when faced with performance anxiety, even the most determined 2 year old will be scared. Don’t skip the playgroups. She needs that time of high activity and socializing with the other kids. And be honest, if you stayed home she would just be so rowdy, she would get herself into trouble. I know that’s how it works around here. :-} My children are 8 and 4. There are many days that the two of them drive me up a wall. There are many other days that I cherish every moment with them. And it’s fine to get yourself through the rough days by thinking about the good days. Parenting can be very confusing. It’s a learning process for you and your children. Just remember that she doesn’t know any more about it than you do. So she will never know if you are not following the latest childrearing book to the letter. Love her for who she is and try to do the best for her and with her. That is all any of us can do. And please, come here and vent to us any time you would like. Most of the folks here are lovely, caring people and you will find support and wisdom here most of the time. Sharon
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