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Question:

>: >:I am attractive but I am overweight.  Am I doomed to date fat men or are >:there some decent looking men who are not fat interested in overweight >:women?  I am 5′5". 220 lbs >:I’m not incredibly huge but I so have some >:meat on my bones.

That must be an *awfully* lot of meat on those bones.. Anyone who is only 5′5" and weighs 220 lbs has a real problem..both mentally and physically.  Maybe you should go see your m.d. and see if he can help you get rid of some of that excess flab rather than troll the personals newsgroups whining constantly about how much you weigh. Instead of whining about it, why don’t you try to do something about it and stop feeling sorry for yourself? >:I am educated, working on a bachelor degree, almost 29 >:years old, living on my own, like to teach, listen to music, attend >:cultural events,  employed, >:divorced, doing a very fullfilling thing…raising a child.  I have >:friends and am socially involved.

If you have such a great social life and friends, then why are you trolling for men on usenet? Are you that desperate for a man, *any* man? Can’t your friends introduce you to anyone? Or is there a shortage of men in Las Cruces? Or is it quite possible that your lousy attitude just turns men "off" and "away" from you? Have you considered going to your local gym and working out? They have programs where you can take your child along with you..Maybe you could meet a single father there.. But then with your attitude I doubt it. I am quite surprised that such a well educated, employed, single mother such as you would even *dream* of picking up strangers on the ‘net…don’t you have a concept of the danger that you could put yourself and your child’s life in? But then Ms. Wiseman, maybe, just maybe, you’re not all what you want people to think you are,  are you?  Maybe you troll the ‘net looking for men to *sleep* with, so you can get something out of them? I do know that the cast gets 2 tickets per show because I am friends with one of the members from the late 80s early 90s shows and he told me that if I were ever in NYC, he’d hook me up… it’s not only who you know but who you sleep with ;) What happens if you *try* to sleep with someone and they turn you down? Do you embark on a smear campaign against that person and spread vicious lies and rumours? Does being rejected cause you to act irrational and childish? Throw a temper tantrum? I have asked you time and time again what your views on abortion are.. Yet you refuse to answer me.. Are you pro-life? You apparently *hate* abortionists, don’t you Ms. Wiseman? ….as he told me, he just performs partial birth abortions.  That is one sick motherfucker……. > Tell me, is there someone out there who >:isn’t a psycho or alcoholic who is interested in a decent woman?

Maybe if you would try to get a life you wouldn’t have a problem. (x-posted to the parenting groups due to Ms. Wiseman’s own protest that the parenting groups were deliberately left out because she is a known poster there)

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would you people get a life!!!! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->: >:I am attractive but I am overweight.  Am I doomed to date fat men or > are >:there some decent looking men who are not fat interested in > overweight >:women?  I am 5′5". 220 lbs >:I’m not incredibly huge but I so have some >:meat on my bones. > That must be an *awfully* lot of meat on those bones.. Anyone who is > only 5′5" and weighs 220 lbs has a real problem..both mentally and > physically.  Maybe you should go see your m.d. and see if he can help > you get rid of some of that excess flab rather than troll the > personals newsgroups whining constantly about how much you weigh. > Instead of whining about it, why don’t you try to do something about > it and stop feeling sorry for yourself? >:I am educated, working on a bachelor degree, almost 29 >:years old, living on my own, like to teach, listen to music, attend >:cultural events,  employed, >:divorced, doing a very fullfilling thing…raising a child.  I have >:friends and am socially involved. > If you have such a great social life and friends, then why are you > trolling for men on usenet? Are you that desperate for a man, *any* > man? Can’t your friends introduce you to anyone? Or is there a > shortage of men in Las Cruces? Or is it quite possible that your lousy > attitude just turns men "off" and "away" from you? > Have you considered going to your local gym and working out? They > have programs where you can take your child along with you..Maybe you > could meet a single father there.. But then with your attitude I doubt > it. > I am quite surprised that such a well educated, employed, single > mother such as you would even *dream* of picking up strangers > on the ‘net…don’t you have a concept of the danger that you could > put yourself and your child’s life in? > But then Ms. Wiseman, maybe, just maybe, you’re not all what you want > people to think you are,  are you?  Maybe you troll the ‘net looking > for men to *sleep* with, so you can get something out of them? > I do know that the cast gets 2 tickets per show because I am friends > with one of the members from the late 80s early 90s shows and he told > me that if I were ever in NYC, he’d hook me up… it’s not only who > you know but who you sleep with ;) > What happens if you *try* to sleep with someone and they turn you > down? > Do you embark on a smear campaign against that person and spread > vicious lies and rumours? > Does being rejected cause you to act irrational and childish? Throw a > temper tantrum? > I have asked you time and time again what your views on abortion are.. > Yet you refuse to answer me.. Are you pro-life? You apparently *hate* > abortionists, don’t you Ms. Wiseman? > ….as he told me, he just performs partial birth > abortions.  That is one sick motherfucker……. > Tell me, is there someone out there who >:isn’t a psycho or alcoholic who is interested in a decent woman? > Maybe if you would try to get a life you wouldn’t have a problem. > (x-posted to the parenting groups due to Ms. Wiseman’s own protest > that the parenting groups were deliberately left out because she is > a known poster there)

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