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I am new too I am 42 years old and had this since I was 14.. I still have all my colon, which I am grateful for this. I just would like to know more people with the same problems I have. The problems we have to face… etc
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Excellent advice! Elizabeth – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > I know that this advice may seem somewhat complicated, but… > In certain states misdemeanor or not, you may ‘in-lightem’, sue mommy or > daddy for the damages since they are the official guardians of these kids. > It means that the guardians weren’t acting as so and end up paying for the > damages. You can get restraining orders or punitive damages awarded and > recover your losses back 100%. > IE: Some dopes up here in Canada figure that because street ‘Hockey’ is a > national pastime that it makes it legal everywhere. Wrong! You can play it > if you want, but if your neighbor warns you not to play by their property > for fear of damages say from ball retrieval with the stick and you ignore > that warning and oops it happens. Guess what Mom and Dad, if their kids were > minors still have to pay for the damages. It is called a Civil Action’. > My flower bed went through a stick retrieval and was cut down and trampled. > I sued the parents for the damages citing lack of supervision by an adult. > The absentee parent had to pay or I was going to put a lean on their home. > Their kids and friends now play in their own driveway and reserve the larger > games to the schoolyard. > In other words where their is a will there is a way. The police refused to > get involved but received a stiff reprimand because of their laxed attitude > towards the repeat offender. The pictures that I took of the kid doing the > damages by kicking my flower bed to crap really screwed the kids parents in > court. > And speaking of crap it was ‘hell’ on my ‘Chrons’ when I was in court, which > didn’t really sit to well with the ‘Justice’ sitting on the bench. I must > have told the judge at least 2 times ‘hold that thought’ and ran from the > courtroom looking for a washroom. > Michael >Too bad. Did they give you any advice on how to deal with this in the > future? > Elizabeth >> Well, I wasn’t going to put this into a negative thing but here’s the > story. >> I went to the manager of the office and spoke to a bunch of the people > who >> worked here until I finally got the two kids full names, parent’s name > and >> their address. The police spoke to one of the kids that day about the >> vandelism to my husband’s car that he saw and I mean he actually caught >> them. Because they are minors in the state of Fl you can’t touch them > even >> to detain them or battery charges can be pressed. The cop talked to this >> one parent of 5 kids, and she said that her son was restricted for bad >> behavior in school and wasn’t even on the property that day. Because it > is >> a misdeanor for some reason that I don’t understand, we couldn’t press >> charges. When we found out the other boy who helped with the car and > tried >> to break in the following a day, a called the police again and, are you >> ready for this?, I can’t press charges because I saw him approaching a > front >> window but not that back one where he pulled the screen free, window was >> locked. The police have all the info, and apparently this little group > has >> been up to a lot of "just misdeanors" 11 years old, including a police > car, >> but for reasons I don’t understand, nothing has been down other than > these >> kids are not to come near us at all. Sad but true! And of course all > the >> parents said their kid wouldn’t do it. Then one had the manager call to > set >> up an appoligy and never showed. We tried is all I can say! Depressing >> isn’t it? UM MOM Susan >> > Okay Susan. Did you go to the police? If you don’t follow through, they >> > won’t believe you and continue. When I was a kid, this other kid stole >> > packages out of mailboxes and then went door-to-door selling with his >> > little red wagon of goods. Said his mom didn’t want some stuff anymore. >> > My mother recognized a pair of shoes she had ordered but never > received. >> > She confronted this woman who was in total denial that her kid had done >> > anything wrong. Bad news. Kid probably grew up and is in jail. >> > Elizabeth >> > > Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to > file a >> > > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan >> > > > …and AMEN!!! >> > > > jeffy >> > > > > Susan- >> > > > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I > would >> be >> > > > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good > scare >> > > into >> > > > them. >> > > > > Be well- >> > > > > Tracy >> > > > > CD class of ‘98 >> > > > > my homepage: >> > > > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html >> > > > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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I know that this advice may seem somewhat complicated, but… In certain states misdemeanor or not, you may ‘in-lightem’, sue mommy or daddy for the damages since they are the official guardians of these kids. It means that the guardians weren’t acting as so and end up paying for the damages. You can get restraining orders or punitive damages awarded and recover your losses back 100%. IE: Some dopes up here in Canada figure that because street ‘Hockey’ is a national pastime that it makes it legal everywhere. Wrong! You can play it if you want, but if your neighbor warns you not to play by their property for fear of damages say from ball retrieval with the stick and you ignore that warning and oops it happens. Guess what Mom and Dad, if their kids were minors still have to pay for the damages. It is called a Civil Action’. My flower bed went through a stick retrieval and was cut down and trampled. I sued the parents for the damages citing lack of supervision by an adult. The absentee parent had to pay or I was going to put a lean on their home. Their kids and friends now play in their own driveway and reserve the larger games to the schoolyard. In other words where their is a will there is a way. The police refused to get involved but received a stiff reprimand because of their laxed attitude towards the repeat offender. The pictures that I took of the kid doing the damages by kicking my flower bed to crap really screwed the kids parents in court. And speaking of crap it was ‘hell’ on my ‘Chrons’ when I was in court, which didn’t really sit to well with the ‘Justice’ sitting on the bench. I must have told the judge at least 2 times ‘hold that thought’ and ran from the courtroom looking for a washroom. Michael – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Too bad. Did they give you any advice on how to deal with this in the future? > Elizabeth > Well, I wasn’t going to put this into a negative thing but here’s the story. > I went to the manager of the office and spoke to a bunch of the people who > worked here until I finally got the two kids full names, parent’s name and > their address. The police spoke to one of the kids that day about the > vandelism to my husband’s car that he saw and I mean he actually caught > them. Because they are minors in the state of Fl you can’t touch them even > to detain them or battery charges can be pressed. The cop talked to this > one parent of 5 kids, and she said that her son was restricted for bad > behavior in school and wasn’t even on the property that day. Because it is > a misdeanor for some reason that I don’t understand, we couldn’t press > charges. When we found out the other boy who helped with the car and tried > to break in the following a day, a called the police again and, are you > ready for this?, I can’t press charges because I saw him approaching a front > window but not that back one where he pulled the screen free, window was > locked. The police have all the info, and apparently this little group has > been up to a lot of "just misdeanors" 11 years old, including a police car, > but for reasons I don’t understand, nothing has been down other than these > kids are not to come near us at all. Sad but true! And of course all the > parents said their kid wouldn’t do it. Then one had the manager call to set > up an appoligy and never showed. We tried is all I can say! Depressing > isn’t it? UM MOM Susan > > Okay Susan. Did you go to the police? If you don’t follow through, they > > won’t believe you and continue. When I was a kid, this other kid stole > > packages out of mailboxes and then went door-to-door selling with his > > little red wagon of goods. Said his mom didn’t want some stuff anymore. > > My mother recognized a pair of shoes she had ordered but never received. > > She confronted this woman who was in total denial that her kid had done > > anything wrong. Bad news. Kid probably grew up and is in jail. > > Elizabeth > > > Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a > > > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan > > > > …and AMEN!!! > > > > jeffy > > > > > Susan- > > > > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would > be > > > > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare > > > into > > > > them. > > > > > Be well- > > > > > Tracy > > > > > CD class of ‘98 > > > > > my homepage: > > > > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > > > > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Good point — I still think would-be parents should have to take some kind of test before they have children — not to deny anyone the right to BE a parent, just so they understand the responsibly. Perhaps a class in parenting before one graduates from high school or something. . . . Rebecca 
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Rebecca, > Your solution is better than mine. A SMACK in the head for the parents. The > trouble is they can fight back. Imagine the father taking that without a > disaster. Children usually know when they are wrong, and they can accept a > smack if not down with rancor. > Gail
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I have a good friend who is a police officer and about 6′7" tall too — he looks very scary in full uniform! He even stopped by the house one time to *scare* my kids (when they were about 8 and 10 — he told them to never get into any trouble or he would have to deal with them!! Their eyes were as big as saucers!! The funny thing is, he truly has the heart of a pussycat. . . Rebecca
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Well with a husband 6′7", very imitating to stand up too when he is angry! > LOL. UM MOM Susan > I think a smack in the head to the PARENTS might work better!!! > Rebecca > > Beacon1415 said… > > > I’d like to give the son-of-a -bitch kids a smack in the head. Their > parents > > > are probably in la la land. > > Giggle. Wouldn’t it be lovely if we could do that at times? > > Trouble is, of course, it might make us feel better, but it doesn’t > > actually work. At least, it doesn’t with mine 
> > — > > Fran > > A closed mouth gathers no foot
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Rebecca, Your solution is better than mine. A SMACK in the head for the parents. The trouble is they can fight back. Imagine the father taking that without a disaster. Children usually know when they are wrong, and they can accept a smack if not down with rancor. Gail
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The word "down" should have been "done" Gail
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Well with a husband 6′7", very imitating to stand up too when he is angry! LOL. UM MOM Susan
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I think a smack in the head to the PARENTS might work better!!! > Rebecca > Beacon1415 said… > > I’d like to give the son-of-a -bitch kids a smack in the head. Their > parents > > are probably in la la land. > Giggle. Wouldn’t it be lovely if we could do that at times? > Trouble is, of course, it might make us feel better, but it doesn’t > actually work. At least, it doesn’t with mine > — > Fran > A closed mouth gathers no foot
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I’d like to give the son-of-a -bitch kids a smack in the head. Their parents are probably in la la land. Gail
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Amen Gail, Just my thought! Thanks. UM MOM Susan
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I’d like to give the son-of-a -bitch kids a smack in the head. Their parents > are probably in la la land. > Gail
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I think a smack in the head to the PARENTS might work better!!! Rebecca
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Beacon1415 said… > I’d like to give the son-of-a -bitch kids a smack in the head. Their parents > are probably in la la land. > Giggle. Wouldn’t it be lovely if we could do that at times? > Trouble is, of course, it might make us feel better, but it doesn’t > actually work. At least, it doesn’t with mine > — > Fran > A closed mouth gathers no foot
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Yes, The same as we did,call the police and if at all able click a pic. UM MOM Susan
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Too bad. Did they give you any advice on how to deal with this in the future? > Elizabeth > Well, I wasn’t going to put this into a negative thing but here’s the story. > I went to the manager of the office and spoke to a bunch of the people who > worked here until I finally got the two kids full names, parent’s name and > their address. The police spoke to one of the kids that day about the > vandelism to my husband’s car that he saw and I mean he actually caught > them. Because they are minors in the state of Fl you can’t touch them even > to detain them or battery charges can be pressed. The cop talked to this > one parent of 5 kids, and she said that her son was restricted for bad > behavior in school and wasn’t even on the property that day. Because it is > a misdeanor for some reason that I don’t understand, we couldn’t press > charges. When we found out the other boy who helped with the car and tried > to break in the following a day, a called the police again and, are you > ready for this?, I can’t press charges because I saw him approaching a front > window but not that back one where he pulled the screen free, window was > locked. The police have all the info, and apparently this little group has > been up to a lot of "just misdeanors" 11 years old, including a police car, > but for reasons I don’t understand, nothing has been down other than these > kids are not to come near us at all. Sad but true! And of course all the > parents said their kid wouldn’t do it. Then one had the manager call to set > up an appoligy and never showed. We tried is all I can say! Depressing > isn’t it? UM MOM Susan > > Okay Susan. Did you go to the police? If you don’t follow through, they > > won’t believe you and continue. When I was a kid, this other kid stole > > packages out of mailboxes and then went door-to-door selling with his > > little red wagon of goods. Said his mom didn’t want some stuff anymore. > > My mother recognized a pair of shoes she had ordered but never received. > > She confronted this woman who was in total denial that her kid had done > > anything wrong. Bad news. Kid probably grew up and is in jail. > > Elizabeth > > > Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a > > > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan > > > > …and AMEN!!! > > > > jeffy > > > > > Susan- > > > > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would > be > > > > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare > > > into > > > > them. > > > > > Be well- > > > > > Tracy > > > > > CD class of ‘98 > > > > > my homepage: > > > > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > > > > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Too bad. Did they give you any advice on how to deal with this in the future? Elizabeth – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > Well, I wasn’t going to put this into a negative thing but here’s the story. > I went to the manager of the office and spoke to a bunch of the people who > worked here until I finally got the two kids full names, parent’s name and > their address. The police spoke to one of the kids that day about the > vandelism to my husband’s car that he saw and I mean he actually caught > them. Because they are minors in the state of Fl you can’t touch them even > to detain them or battery charges can be pressed. The cop talked to this > one parent of 5 kids, and she said that her son was restricted for bad > behavior in school and wasn’t even on the property that day. Because it is > a misdeanor for some reason that I don’t understand, we couldn’t press > charges. When we found out the other boy who helped with the car and tried > to break in the following a day, a called the police again and, are you > ready for this?, I can’t press charges because I saw him approaching a front > window but not that back one where he pulled the screen free, window was > locked. The police have all the info, and apparently this little group has > been up to a lot of "just misdeanors" 11 years old, including a police car, > but for reasons I don’t understand, nothing has been down other than these > kids are not to come near us at all. Sad but true! And of course all the > parents said their kid wouldn’t do it. Then one had the manager call to set > up an appoligy and never showed. We tried is all I can say! Depressing > isn’t it? UM MOM Susan > Okay Susan. Did you go to the police? If you don’t follow through, they > won’t believe you and continue. When I was a kid, this other kid stole > packages out of mailboxes and then went door-to-door selling with his > little red wagon of goods. Said his mom didn’t want some stuff anymore. > My mother recognized a pair of shoes she had ordered but never received. > She confronted this woman who was in total denial that her kid had done > anything wrong. Bad news. Kid probably grew up and is in jail. > Elizabeth > > Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a > > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan > > > …and AMEN!!! > > > jeffy > > > > Susan- > > > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would > be > > > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare > > into > > > them. > > > > Be well- > > > > Tracy > > > > CD class of ‘98 > > > > my homepage: > > > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > > > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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AMEN! Rebecca who thinks Fran is a very wise woman!
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> sdores said… > The police have all the info, and apparently this little group has > been up to a lot of "just misdeanors" 11 years old, including a police car, > but for reasons I don’t understand, nothing has been down other than these > kids are not to come near us at all. Sad but true! And of course all the > parents said their kid wouldn’t do it. Then one had the manager call to set > up an appoligy and never showed. We tried is all I can say! Depressing > isn’t it? > I’ve never been able to understand parents who deny that their ickle > darlings could ever do anything wrong. I love my children, but I’m > not blind. I know exactly which of them might do what, and I’ve > always let them know that although I’ll always be there for them I > won’t lie for them to get them out of trouble. I would also know if > one of my children were unjustly accused of something, because I > know what each might or might not get up to. Some things I could > believe of one, but not of another for example. Not that we’ve ever > had any trouble from any of them that’s involved other people, but > they’re still young and there’s still plenty of time… <sigh> > There’s a child local to me who’s a total pain in the ****. His > mother’s pretty well given up on him because anything she says makes > not the slightest bit of difference. The point is that the police, > while I’m sure they would love to get him in a cell and give him > what he deserves – he’s only 10 – are powerless to act, because of > his age. They’re well aware how much trouble this boy can cause, > and they’ve got the support of his mother; however their hands are > tied to a very large extent. I know what I’d like to do to him, but > it’s probably illegal in this dratted politically correct day and > age > — > Fran > A closed mouth gathers no foot
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Any chance you can set up a video tape? Makes me crazy when I hear parents say "not my kid". Perhaps if they saw it on tape. . . .(shaking head) Rebecca
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Well, I wasn’t going to put this into a negative thing but here’s the story. > I went to the manager of the office and spoke to a bunch of the people who > worked here until I finally got the two kids full names, parent’s name and > their address. The police spoke to one of the kids that day about the > vandelism to my husband’s car that he saw and I mean he actually caught > them. Because they are minors in the state of Fl you can’t touch them even > to detain them or battery charges can be pressed. The cop talked to this > one parent of 5 kids, and she said that her son was restricted for bad > behavior in school and wasn’t even on the property that day. Because it is > a misdeanor for some reason that I don’t understand, we couldn’t press > charges. When we found out the other boy who helped with the car and tried > to break in the following a day, a called the police again and, are you > ready for this?, I can’t press charges because I saw him approaching a front > window but not that back one where he pulled the screen free, window was > locked. The police have all the info, and apparently this little group has > been up to a lot of "just misdeanors" 11 years old, including a police car, > but for reasons I don’t understand, nothing has been down other than these > kids are not to come near us at all. Sad but true! And of course all the > parents said their kid wouldn’t do it. Then one had the manager call to set > up an appoligy and never showed. We tried is all I can say! Depressing > isn’t it? UM MOM Susan > Okay Susan. Did you go to the police? If you don’t follow through, they > won’t believe you and continue. When I was a kid, this other kid stole > packages out of mailboxes and then went door-to-door selling with his > little red wagon of goods. Said his mom didn’t want some stuff anymore. > My mother recognized a pair of shoes she had ordered but never received. > She confronted this woman who was in total denial that her kid had done > anything wrong. Bad news. Kid probably grew up and is in jail. > Elizabeth > > Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a > > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan > > > …and AMEN!!! > > > jeffy > > > > Susan- > > > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would > be > > > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare > > into > > > them. > > > > Be well- > > > > Tracy > > > > CD class of ‘98 > > > > my homepage: > > > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > > > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Susan- Sorry you’re not getting the peace of mind you deserve. I’m surprised the police don’t want to do more. My brother is a police officer and he’s had to put a good scare into some young kids… hoping that they wouldn’t continue the behavior into adulthood. Be well- Tracy CD class of ‘98 my homepage: http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Well, I wasn’t going to put this into a negative thing but here’s the story. I went to the manager of the office and spoke to a bunch of the people who worked here until I finally got the two kids full names, parent’s name and their address. The police spoke to one of the kids that day about the vandelism to my husband’s car that he saw and I mean he actually caught them. Because they are minors in the state of Fl you can’t touch them even to detain them or battery charges can be pressed. The cop talked to this one parent of 5 kids, and she said that her son was restricted for bad behavior in school and wasn’t even on the property that day. Because it is a misdeanor for some reason that I don’t understand, we couldn’t press charges. When we found out the other boy who helped with the car and tried to break in the following a day, a called the police again and, are you ready for this?, I can’t press charges because I saw him approaching a front window but not that back one where he pulled the screen free, window was locked. The police have all the info, and apparently this little group has been up to a lot of "just misdeanors" 11 years old, including a police car, but for reasons I don’t understand, nothing has been down other than these kids are not to come near us at all. Sad but true! And of course all the parents said their kid wouldn’t do it. Then one had the manager call to set up an appoligy and never showed. We tried is all I can say! Depressing isn’t it? UM MOM Susan
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Okay Susan. Did you go to the police? If you don’t follow through, they > won’t believe you and continue. When I was a kid, this other kid stole > packages out of mailboxes and then went door-to-door selling with his > little red wagon of goods. Said his mom didn’t want some stuff anymore. > My mother recognized a pair of shoes she had ordered but never received. > She confronted this woman who was in total denial that her kid had done > anything wrong. Bad news. Kid probably grew up and is in jail. > Elizabeth > Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan > > …and AMEN!!! > > jeffy > > > Susan- > > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would be > > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare > into > > them. > > > Be well- > > > Tracy > > > CD class of ‘98 > > > my homepage: > > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Okay Susan. Did you go to the police? If you don’t follow through, they won’t believe you and continue. When I was a kid, this other kid stole packages out of mailboxes and then went door-to-door selling with his little red wagon of goods. Said his mom didn’t want some stuff anymore. My mother recognized a pair of shoes she had ordered but never received. She confronted this woman who was in total denial that her kid had done anything wrong. Bad news. Kid probably grew up and is in jail. Elizabeth – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan > …and AMEN!!! > jeffy > > Susan- > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would be > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare > into > them. > > Be well- > > Tracy > > CD class of ‘98 > > my homepage: > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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…as usual, sometimes the *parents* are *worse* than their kids…afterall, guess who they pattern after? right? jeffy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a > formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan > …and AMEN!!! > jeffy > > Susan- > > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would be > > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare > into > them. > > Be well- > > Tracy > > CD class of ‘98 > > my homepage: > > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Can you believe it, they are a no show. Go to police tomorrow to file a formal complaint and get the report. Unbelievable. UM MOM Susan – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> …and AMEN!!! > jeffy > Susan- > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would be > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare into > them. > Be well- > Tracy > CD class of ‘98 > my homepage: > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Susan- I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would be horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare into them. Be well- Tracy CD class of ‘98 my homepage: http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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…and AMEN!!! jeffy
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Susan- > I hope this will put an end to them causing trouble. I know I would be > horrified if it were my child. Hopefully this will put a good scare into them. > Be well- > Tracy > CD class of ‘98 > my homepage: > http://home.talkcity.com/ParadiseDr/goodboie/index.html > : ) smile – it makes people wonder what you’re up to!
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Well the good news is my investigation skills are getting better. I have the full names and address of each of the kids. The mother of the one who vandalized my husbands car (not badly) and tryied to get into my home through a locked window when he knew I was here is supposed to come with his mother to appologize. He is 11 years old. I don’t want to press charges if the parent will take responsibility to teach right from wrong. To me this is the right move but I have to see the boys face when he says he is sorry to see if it is real or just to appease his mother. I’ll let you know, but I do feel a whole lot better now that both families were notified and warned to keep their kids away from where I am. The police were also updated as to who they are and where they live. So will see. I really hope it ends with a happy story. UM MOM Susan
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Susan, > That’s HORRIBLE!! You never know what someone will do if they are up to > doing something like this! Just be careful!!! It’s such a violation when you > car gets broken into. I’ve had it done before and it’s a horrible feeling. I > hope they catch the little creep. Shouldn’t he be in school? It shouldn’t be > too hard to find a 12 year old on a weekday! > Try to de-stress. (yeah right, we all know how easy that is!!!) > How’s this for stress? Yesterday for the third time my husband’s Passat > gets vandalized but this time he sees them. No older than 12. Today, I > see > the same kid going to one of my front br windows and crack the curtain so > he > can see me and me him. He took off or so I thought. I decided to check > the > window on the side to find that he tried to remove my screen. Cops are > coming to document this. How’s this for stress? Thank goodness even > without the screen the window is always locked. I hope I don’t need to > start locking myself in completely during the day. Well thought I would > share. Shook up a bit but ok and mad! UM MOM Susan
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Susan, That’s HORRIBLE!! You never know what someone will do if they are up to doing something like this! Just be careful!!! It’s such a violation when you car gets broken into. I’ve had it done before and it’s a horrible feeling. I hope they catch the little creep. Shouldn’t he be in school? It shouldn’t be too hard to find a 12 year old on a weekday! Try to de-stress. (yeah right, we all know how easy that is!!!)
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> How’s this for stress? Yesterday for the third time my husband’s Passat > gets vandalized but this time he sees them. No older than 12. Today, I see > the same kid going to one of my front br windows and crack the curtain so he > can see me and me him. He took off or so I thought. I decided to check the > window on the side to find that he tried to remove my screen. Cops are > coming to document this. How’s this for stress? Thank goodness even > without the screen the window is always locked. I hope I don’t need to > start locking myself in completely during the day. Well thought I would > share. Shook up a bit but ok and mad! UM MOM Susan
Response:
How’s this for stress? Yesterday for the third time my husband’s Passat gets vandalized but this time he sees them. No older than 12. Today, I see the same kid going to one of my front br windows and crack the curtain so he can see me and me him. He took off or so I thought. I decided to check the window on the side to find that he tried to remove my screen. Cops are coming to document this. How’s this for stress? Thank goodness even without the screen the window is always locked. I hope I don’t need to start locking myself in completely during the day. Well thought I would share. Shook up a bit but ok and mad! UM MOM Susan
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