Pure Parents

Question:

>>Shitty pants, after the situation you have described that your family is >in…you would be the last person to throw a stone. >Two faced

Gee, when the shoe is on the other foot…who is poo-pooing now? Cathy, Mom of Taylor 7, and Tiffany 4. To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart! Never take a sleeping pill the same night you take a laxative.

Response:

>>Charlene, >Use your killfile and don’t sweat it.  Count your blessing that you are not >like this person >You don’t know what I am like.

Gee, did you not say in a few posts back that you *knew* Charlene from her posts….why would it be any different for Kendra to *know* you from your posts….. POT-KETTLE-BLACK! Cathy, Mom of Taylor 7, and Tiffany 4. To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart! Never take a sleeping pill the same night you take a laxative.

Response:

>> >You sure don’t sound like a Christian.  Oh, wait, yes you do.  Sorry. > Yep a TRUE Christian.  :-) >Oh, *I* see now, a fucking fundie asshole! >Excuse me for ever thinking you had a mind. >Steve

HA HA HA HA  So now YOU are roasting me over your bullshit baggage. Must have REALLY struck a nerve.

Response:

>Hey Charlene….if it makes you feel better I too am a "liar"….I consider >the man I LIVE with my husband….we are not married and we have three >children I DON"T believe are illegitimate…in fact they have lived in the >same house as BOTH their parents for their entire lives…OLD POOPIE PANTS >is going to get the ax from me…she or he is a lame excuse for a human >being I am a Christian…and I feel I am doing nothing wrong…I suppose be >cause you are married that makes you a good person poopie pants???WRONG >Charlene put POOPIE PANTS in your killfile…never to hear from that >seething piece of cow dung again.

You call yourself a Christian but you call me a seething piece of cow dung. Apparently no one noticed I apologized to Charlene. Hypocrite. Poopie

Response:

>>You didn’t write this post on 2/8/2000? ><snip Charlene’s post> >How exactly was Charlene’s post her complaining about her SD weight…sounded >like genuine concern from a SM who actually cares in a forum where she should >feel safe talking about it. >Shitty pants, after the situation you have described that your family is >in…you would be the last person to throw a stone.

Two faced – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Cathy, Mom of Taylor 7, and Tiffany 4. >To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart! >Never take a sleeping pill the same night you take a laxative.

Response:

>Charlene, >Use your killfile and don’t sweat it.  Count your blessing that you are not >like this person

You don’t know what I am like. > and anyone else petty enough to belittle you for no good >reason.   Poopie is in my killfile as is someone else (after reading his >responses in this thread) I considered filtering a month ago. >Hope everything works out. >Kendra >~*~*~*~ >Fight like a real man!  Get on your knees and pray! >< ><

Petty two faced hypocrite.

Response:

> You didn’t write this post on 2/8/2000? > Like the title says, I have a ten year old step daughter who has an > appetite bigger than mine, and many adults that I know. > She is slightly overweight, at 90 lbs (don’t know how tall she is, I > would guess 5′1 or so, average height anyway) but I don’t want to inflict > any self esteem issues or weight complexes on her, so I never mention it.

Read the above last line of my post. My post was one of concern for her, she is called names at school and in the playground and it bothers her. I would NEVER say anything to her to make her feel unattractive, and I have never "complained" that she was overweight. Not here, or anywhere. I was asking people’s opinions about her appetite, since she seemed to me to be eating an unusual amount of food.

Response:

> >You sure don’t sound like a Christian.  Oh, wait, yes you do.  Sorry. > Yep a TRUE Christian.  :-)

Oh, *I* see now, a fucking fundie asshole! Excuse me for ever thinking you had a mind. Steve

Response:

Charlene, Use your killfile and don’t sweat it.  Count your blessing that you are not like this person and anyone else petty enough to belittle you for no good reason.   Poopie is in my killfile as is someone else (after reading his responses in this thread) I considered filtering a month ago. Hope everything works out. Kendra ~*~*~*~ Fight like a real man!  Get on your knees and pray! < ><

Response:

>You sure don’t sound like a Christian.  Oh, wait, yes you do.  Sorry.

Yep a TRUE Christian.  :-) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->AJPDLA > Hey Charlene….if it makes you feel better I too am a "liar"….I >consider > the man I LIVE with my husband….we are not married and we have three > children I DON"T believe are illegitimate…in fact they have lived in the > same house as BOTH their parents for their entire lives…OLD POOPIE PANTS > is going to get the ax from me…she or he is a lame excuse for a human > being I am a Christian…and I feel I am doing nothing wrong…I suppose >be > cause you are married that makes you a good person poopie pants???WRONG > Charlene put POOPIE PANTS in your killfile…never to hear from that > seething piece of cow dung again.

Response:

Interesting how the whole rest of that was truncated.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> You didn’t write this post on 2/8/2000? > Like the title says, I have a ten year old step daughter who has an > appetite bigger than mine, and many adults that I know. > She is slightly overweight, at 90 lbs (don’t know how tall she is, I > would guess 5′1 or so, average height anyway) but I don’t want to inflict > any self esteem issues or weight complexes on her, so I never mention it. > Read the above last line of my post. My post was one of concern for her, she > is called names at school and in the playground and it bothers her. I would > NEVER say anything to her to make her feel unattractive, and I have never > "complained" that she was overweight. Not here, or anywhere. I was asking > people’s opinions about her appetite, since she seemed to me to be eating an > unusual amount of food.

Response:

You two need to get a room.  You’re not influencing anyone here with your childish bantor. AJPDLA

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Nobody is forcing you to read my posts are they.  If you don’t like > what I write, don’t read it. I won’t sugar coat my responses for you > or anyone else.  Nobody is forcing you to agree with me or anyone else > on here.  If you can’t handle blunt views in an adult forum that’s > your problem.  What I say is jus MY opinion and that is all. > I have no problem with you not "sugar coating" your responses, but when you > start trying to prove that I am a phoney, a "nutcase" (as you so eloquantly > put it) by taking things out of context that I have posted on OTHER forums, > that’s what I have a problem with. One has nothing to do with the other, and > what you did, IMO, steps over a major boundary of common decency and > courtesy. It’s no longer about you voicing your opinion to something that I > said on this newsgroup. You have taken it well beyond that now. > Charlene

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> Nobody is forcing you to read my posts are they.  If you don’t like > what I write, don’t read it. I won’t sugar coat my responses for you > or anyone else.  Nobody is forcing you to agree with me or anyone else > on here.  If you can’t handle blunt views in an adult forum that’s > your problem.  What I say is jus MY opinion and that is all.

I have no problem with you not "sugar coating" your responses, but when you start trying to prove that I am a phoney, a "nutcase" (as you so eloquantly put it) by taking things out of context that I have posted on OTHER forums, that’s what I have a problem with. One has nothing to do with the other, and what you did, IMO, steps over a major boundary of common decency and courtesy. It’s no longer about you voicing your opinion to something that I said on this newsgroup. You have taken it well beyond that now. Charlene

Response:

Some of us have WAY TOO MUCH time on their hands. What a stalker. AJPDLA

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Excuse me, but now you have gone way over the lines of human decency. You >know NOTHING about the kind of person I am, or my life, and I resent the >fact that you are judging me in this way: (please, read on) > Excuse me but you are not telling the truth. Archives don’t lie. >> woman complains about the step daughter constantly. >> Charlene says she is married to the girl’s father and the fact is she >> has been living with him the past 2 1/2. >> She claims the girl’s bio mom is a drug addict and all around bad >> person and she has told the step daughter this. >I have NEVER, EVER told my step daughter anything bad about her mother. For >Heaven’s sake, the child has gone through enough. All children from divorce >have. I would like you to quote me on that. Where have I said that I have >told my stepdaughter this?? I will respond to your other judgement call >later on here. >> The girl’s dad was living with another woman Melanie for 4 years and >> she I guess had been the girl’s "Mom" during that time.  Melanie died >> in a motorcycle accident.  One year later Charlene moves in with Dad. >OK, and this proves what exactly?? Melanie was a friend of mine also, and >the fact that you are bold enough to mention this to try to prove something >derogatory about my character is mindblowing to me. Who do you think you >are?? >> Charlene complains that the step daughter is overweight etc. >wrong again. I won’t even give this one the courtesy of a reply. It is just >ludicrous to me. I have said no such thing…ever. If you’re going to make >claims like this, atleast be able to back them up. > You didn’t write this post on 2/8/2000? > X-Priority: 3 > X-Mimeole: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V5.00.2314.1300 > X-Trace: news1.rdc1.ab.home.com 949980184 24.64.118.10 (Mon, 07 Feb > 2000 19:23:04 PST) > X-MSMail-Priority: Normal > Newsgroups: alt.support.step-parents > Like the title says, I have a ten year old step daughter who has an > appetite > bigger than mine, and many adults that I know. > She is slightly overweight, at 90 lbs (don’t know how tall she is, I > would > guess 5′1 or so, average height anyway) but I don’t want to inflict > any self > esteem issues or weight complexes on her, so I never mention it. > However, at > any meal, she will eat a normal amount, the same that her dad and I > eat, and > then say that she is still "hungry". She could then easily eat the > same > amount atleast once, sometimes twice if we let her, and if she really > liked > the food. When we go to McDonald’s (for example) she can easily eat a > two > cheeseburger meal, or a quarter pounder meal, and then say that she is > still > hungry. Plus, she will come to me 1/2 after eating and ask for a > snack. > We do restrict the amount of food that she is eating at one sitting, > and I > have cut out all but nutritious snacks between meals. I am wondering > if she > isn’t mistaking not feeling totally stuffed full for feeling "hungry", > because how a person can polish off two cheeseburgers, large fries and > a > large soft drink, and still say that they are hungry, is beyond me. > I have concerns about her weight becoming more of a problem the older > she > gets and the more her metabolism naturally slows down as it definitely > did > for her mom. Is it normal for a kid this age to have such an enormous > appetite, and is it wrong for us to try to restrict the amount of food > that > she eats? (You know the old adage, "she’s a growing girl/boy, she > needs to > eat!") BTW, she is not an active kid, in fact, she is very inactive, > so it’s > not a calorie requirement thing. > thanks for reading, > Charlene >> NO wonder this kid has problems!  Charlene claims BIO mom dumped her >> off with dad when she was 3.That is if you can believe anything >> Charlene says after lying about being married.  She claims to be a >> Christian but seems to have no qualms about "living in sin" and making >> "illegitimate babies" >Once again, you are nobody to judge my situation, and I have no need to >explain it or justify it to you. I will look to God for guidance and >correction. You’re not saying anything that I haven’t already said myself. >The way you "found out" that I am not legally married yet is from a post >that I wrote myself. It’s not a secret, and you haven’t "blown my >cover"…..it is something that I am currently in an area of great personal >struggle with – not being married, being a Christian, and my fianc